Well, in the beginning of this video, You are wearing a semi-large strap-on dildo, supported by a nicely designed harness; and he is asking You questions about it. After viewing Your awesome video, I read Your comment that Your husband makes custom harnesses. A comfortable, sturdy harness is important especially when using larger dildos, and the ones used in Your videos are great; and the Q & A is so other pegging enthusiasts will know where we can buy that harness for ourselves.